My Alleged Husband

Chapter 1390: Chapter 1208: That Moment_5

”Every child’s path is their own choice. Since they have chosen this path, they can never avoid what they face in the future. It’s better to let them bear it and face it themselves; maybe this way they’ll grow faster, right?”

Your mom had already decided to leave home at that time. I failed him, bringing such severe harm to her, making her afraid to live in this home, it’s all my fault.

”Dad, don’t be sad. Is there something you haven’t told me? Shouldn’t you tell me everything you said to my mom before?”

Zhang Yichen was stunned. He didn’t expect his son to have such a mindset and still want to know all the truth.

”Alright, I’ll tell you!”

”Grandpa, I know every word you say is very reasonable, and I know every word you say is for my good. I understand even more that everything you do is for the good of the people in this family. But he’s my biological son. How can I bear to watch him train so hard to prove to his grandparents that he’s a good kid? Watching his daily training makes me, as a mother, feel very uncomfortable. Falling again and again, getting hurt all over, yet he still has to hold back tears and continue training. It’s not just once or twice. In a mother’s eyes, it’s heart-wrenching pain that no one can understand. A mother’s love for her child is different from a father’s. A father’s love may be selfless, but a mother’s love is selfish. I must selfishly consider my son. I can’t bear to see my son jump into the fire pit again and again; I can’t do it. Every time I see him injured, my heart is extremely painful. I really want to rush up and stop her training, but I can’t. As the nation has its laws, the family has its rules. This is the path he chose. He indeed should bear the consequences himself, and as a child, is he wrong?”

”Child, maybe you still don’t understand until now. This isn’t about whether there’s a mistake or not, but whether this should be done. Since he chose this path, he must walk it alone. No one can help him or bear this for him. Everyone chooses different paths; naturally, the results they bear are different. Since he chose this path, what reason do you have to regret it?

I know you feel sorry for your son. He’s my family too. How could I not feel sorry for him? But feeling sorry is feeling sorry. Some things can’t be violated, and mustn’t be. You must do what must be done. Don’t you understand?

Although you see your child training so hard and feel sad and uncomfortable inside, have you ever thought that one day, these trainings will be beneficial for him? He won’t be helpless in the face of difficulties. He knows what kind of help he needs. This is very beneficial for a child’s growth. We cannot choose to deprive our son’s right to grow because of the selfishness of a mother’s love.

If you think you are right, then calmly think about how to make these things peacefully resolved. I don’t know what exactly happened between you and your husband, what kind of things happened. You should both stand in the child’s perspective to consider the issues, right? The child is already not young; he knows his rights and wrongs, can discern right from wrong. If you easily give up your child like this, won’t you feel uncomfortable inside, painful, and guilty for a lifetime?”

”Grandpa, to be honest with you, one of my middle school classmates appeared, and my husband has argued with me repeatedly because of this. Do you think I have any reason to continue living with him? I can’t endure it; I can’t stand his constant suspicion of me. You also know that mutual trust is the most important thing between a couple. If there’s no trust between us, what’s the point of living together?