Lord of Perverted Ladies

Mara chose a small restaurant two streets away from the bus stop.

It wasn’t the sort of place Adrian would have noticed on his own. The sign above the entrance had faded, one of the windows was covered with brown paper, and a handwritten notice on the door warned customers that the card machine was broken.

Inside, there were six tables.

Two were occupied.

The owner greeted Mara by name, which suggested she came here often enough to be remembered. She ordered two lunches without looking at the menu.

Adrian waited until they sat down.

”So,” he said. ”Your terrible decision.”

Mara looked at him.

”You could at least pretend to be interested in the food first.”

”I’m interested in the food.”

”You haven’t even looked at the menu.”

”I trust you.”

”That’s a dangerous habit.”

”People keep telling me that.”

She almost smiled.

For a while, they talked about ordinary things. The weather. The construction work happening across the street. The owner complaining about the rising price of vegetables.

Adrian found himself relaxing.

That was probably why Mara had chosen this place.

It was difficult to have a grand philosophical argument while an elderly man at the next table loudly complained that his soup contained too many onions.

When the food arrived, Mara waited until the owner had left before speaking again.

”Three years ago, I had a younger brother.”

Adrian put down his fork.

”Had?”

”He died.”

”I’m sorry.”

”Thank you.”

She said it without any visible reaction. Not coldly. Just as though she had learned that people usually needed to say those words, even when neither person knew what to do with them afterward.

”His name was Daniel,” she continued. ”He was twenty-two. He wanted to leave our hometown and study music. He was good at it, too. Not good enough to become famous, perhaps, but that wasn’t what he wanted.”

”What did he want?”

”To play.”

Adrian understood that distinction.

There were people who wanted to become something, and people who simply wanted to do something. The first group usually had plans. The second often had to explain themselves.

”Your family disagreed?”

”My family thought it was a waste of time. Our father wanted him to take over the family business. I agreed with our father.”

”Why?”

”Because I was older. Because I had already made the practical choices. Because I had spent years convincing myself that doing what was necessary was the same as doing what was right.”

Mara took a sip of water.

”I told Daniel that he could pursue music later. After the business was stable. After our father retired. After we had enough money. There was always another condition.”

”And he left anyway?”

”No.”

She looked down at her plate.

”That’s the part I still hate.”

Daniel hadn’t left.

Their father had suffered a heart attack several months before Daniel planned to move. The business was struggling, and Mara had been the only person who knew how to keep it running. She had asked her brother to stay until their father recovered.

Daniel agreed.

Then he stayed another month.

Then another.

He continued playing music in his room, but he stopped talking about leaving. Mara told herself he had finally understood the situation.

She had been wrong.

”One evening, he came to me with a letter,” she said. ”He had been accepted into a music program. He’d applied months earlier without telling us.”

Adrian listened.

”He asked me what I thought he should do. I told him the truth, or what I believed was the truth. If he left, our father would lose the business. If he stayed, he could still study later. I told him he had a responsibility to the family.”

”Did he agree?”

”He asked me whether I would stay if I were in his position.”

”What did you say?”

”I told him I wasn’t in his position.”

Adrian winced.

Mara gave a humorless laugh.

”Yes. I know.”

”What happened?”

”He stayed.”

She didn’t immediately continue.

Outside, a delivery truck passed the window. Its engine rattled loudly enough to interrupt their conversation for several seconds.

”Three months later, Daniel died in a road accident. He was coming home from work. A truck crossed the divider, and that was it.”

Adrian said nothing.

There were moments when words were useful. This wasn’t one of them.

”I spent the next year telling myself that I hadn’t done anything wrong,” Mara continued. ”I hadn’t forced him to stay. I hadn’t threatened him. He’d asked for my opinion, and I’d given it. He had made his own decision.”

”But you knew what you wanted him to choose.”

”Yes.”

”And you made sure he understood the consequences of choosing differently.”

”Yes.”

She met his eyes.

”I never told him he wasn’t allowed to leave. I simply made leaving feel like abandoning everyone who loved him.”

Adrian looked at the food between them.

He thought of the people who had once stood before him, asking him to decide whether they should exist, whether they should remain, whether their lives were worth the suffering they might bring.

He had refused to answer for them.

It had taken him a long time to understand that refusing to decide wasn’t always enough.

Sometimes a person could leave the decision in someone else’s hands while quietly making every other option unbearable.

”What happened to the business?” he asked.

”Our father recovered. The business survived. Eventually, he sold it.”

”And you?”

”I spent a long time being angry with Daniel.”

Adrian looked up.

Mara didn’t appear ashamed of the admission. If anything, saying it seemed harder than telling him about the accident.

”I was angry that he hadn’t left. Angry that he had given up something he wanted. Angry that he had stayed and then died anyway, leaving me with the responsibility I had insisted he accept.”

She pushed a piece of food around her plate.

”Most of all, I was angry because I couldn’t ask him what he would have done if I’d told him to go.”

Adrian understood that, too.

The questions that remained after a person was gone were rarely the important ones. They were simply the only ones left.

”Do you think you caused his death?” he asked.

”No.”

The answer came quickly.

”I don’t believe that. I didn’t cause the accident. I didn’t know what would happen. I couldn’t have known.”

”Then what do you believe you did?”

”I took a choice that belonged to him and made it smaller.”

She paused.

”I didn’t steal his freedom. I helped him surrender it.”

Adrian leaned back in his chair.

That was a more difficult distinction than he had expected.

For a long time, he had thought of freedom as something that could be protected by stepping aside. Let people choose. Let them leave. Let them return. Don’t decide what their lives should mean.

But Mara’s story pointed toward something less comfortable.

A person could respect another person’s right to choose and still influence that choice in ways they would never admit to themselves.

Love could become pressure.

Concern could become control.

Even sacrifice could become a debt that someone else was expected to repay.

”What did you do afterward?” Adrian asked.

”I changed the way I spoke to people.”

”That sounds simple.”

”It wasn’t.”

She smiled faintly.

”I started asking people what they wanted before telling them what I thought they should do. I learned to say when I was afraid instead of pretending I was being practical. And I stopped treating every disagreement as proof that someone didn’t understand the situation.”

”Did it work?”

”Sometimes.”

”That’s disappointing.”

”Life is full of disappointing results.”

He laughed despite himself.

Mara did too, although her smile disappeared soon afterward.

”I still make mistakes,” she said. ”I still give advice when nobody asks for it. I still worry when people make decisions I wouldn’t make. The difference is that I try to notice when my concern becomes a reason to control them.”

Adrian thought about his family.

His brother leaving. Lena building a life without him. The people who had asked him to decide for them, and the people who had refused to let him decide at all.

He had learned to let people go.

He was beginning to understand that letting them go was only one part of it.

They also had to be allowed to stay for reasons he didn’t understand.

To disagree with him.

To make decisions he considered foolish.

And, sometimes, to hurt themselves in ways he couldn’t prevent.

”Did you ever tell Daniel you were sorry?” he asked.

Mara went quiet.

”No.”

”Why not?”

”Because I kept waiting for the right moment. I thought I needed to understand everything first. I thought I needed to become a better person before I could apologize properly.”

She looked at him.

”Then he died, and I discovered that becoming a better person doesn’t give you the right to rewrite the past.”

Adrian swallowed.

He had spent an unreasonable amount of time trying to repair things that could not be repaired. Bringing back what had left. Restoring what had been lost. Making sure every painful choice eventually led somewhere worthwhile.

He had called it responsibility.

Sometimes, it had been fear wearing a more respectable name.

”What would you tell him now?” he asked.

Mara stared at the table.

”I would tell him that I was afraid.”

Her voice grew quieter.

”I was afraid our father would collapse again. I was afraid the business would fail. I was afraid that if Daniel left and succeeded, I would have to admit that the life I had chosen wasn’t the only reasonable one.”

She took a breath.

”And I would tell him that none of those fears gave me the right to make his world smaller.”

Neither spoke for a while.

The restaurant continued around them. Plates clattered in the kitchen. Someone laughed near the entrance. The old man at the next table had apparently won his argument about the onions.

The world was very good at continuing while people dealt with things that had changed theirs forever.

Eventually, Mara asked, ”Do you think I was wrong?”

Adrian considered the question.

He could have given her an easy answer. He could have told her that she had done her best, that she hadn’t known Daniel would die, that nobody could have predicted what would happen.

All of those things were true.

None of them answered her question.

”Yes,” he said.

Mara nodded slowly.

”But I don’t think you’re wrong because he died,” Adrian continued. ”You were wrong because you decided that your fear was a good enough reason for him to give up something important to him.”

She looked at him for a long moment.

”That’s harsher than I expected.”

”You asked.”

”I did.”

”And I don’t think that makes you a terrible person. It means you made a choice that hurt someone. You can take responsibility for that without deciding that everything about you is terrible.”

Mara lowered her eyes.

For the first time since they had met, she looked close to tears.

Adrian didn’t reach across the table. He didn’t tell her that everything would be fine.

He simply stayed quiet.

After a while, she wiped her eyes with a napkin and gave him a small, embarrassed smile.

”You know,” she said, ”I expected you to give me some grand answer about freedom.”

”I could try.”

”Please don’t.”

”Fair enough.”

She laughed, and this time it sounded genuine.

They finished their lunch.

Outside, the afternoon had grown warmer. Mara stopped near the corner where they would have to separate.

”There’s one more thing I wanted to ask you.”

”Go ahead.”

”Have you ever made a choice for someone because you were afraid of what would happen if you let them decide?”

Adrian thought of all the doors he had closed. All the futures he had refused to follow. All the people he had tried to save, sometimes without asking whether they wanted to be saved.

”Yes,” he said.

”Did you apologize?”

”Not always.”

”Will you?”

He looked toward the street.

”I don’t know.”

Mara nodded.

”That’s an honest answer.”

She took a few steps away, then turned back.

”Adrian?”

”Yes?”

”Don’t wait until you’re a better person.”

He watched her disappear into the crowd.

For a long time, he stood at the corner, thinking about Daniel, a young man who had wanted nothing more extraordinary than to play music and had been asked to wait for a better time.

Adrian couldn’t give him back the years he had lost.

He couldn’t know whether Daniel would have left if Mara had answered differently. He couldn’t know whether he would have succeeded, failed, or regretted his decision.

There were too many possibilities.

And none of them belonged to Adrian.

His phone vibrated.

A message from Lena appeared on the screen.

Are you coming home for dinner? Noah says he can cook.

A second message arrived almost immediately.

I’ve told him not to.

Adrian smiled.

He typed a reply.

I’m on my way. Hide the knives.

Then he started walking.

He had spent so much of his existence trying to understand what it meant to let people choose that he had almost forgotten something much simpler.

Sometimes, the best thing he could do was go home, sit at a table, and let the people he loved surprise him.

Even if the surprise involved burnt food.

Especially then.